You cannot help another organism (pet or human) overcome or work through a fear response via baby talk and coddling. Baby talk and coddling are submissive in nature and they actually reinforce or encourage the entity experiencing the fear to continue feeling justified in their response no matter how irrational it may happen to be. A fear response must be addressed with stable behavior and stable vocalizations if it is to be dealt with as best as is possible. The voice of the stabilizer preferably needs to be even in tone, rhythm, and cadence. The behavior of of the stabilizer must not involve nervous/excitable chaotic energy, over-nurturing or over-dominating. This is the only way to avoid reinforcing or further enabling/marking the fear which we are supposedly trying to overcome in the suffering subject.
Accurately analyzing and stably confronting delusional possession by fear is a complex and often seemingly counterintuitive sensory conundrum. The healer must disengage with their own egocentric fears, desires, and any temptable manipulation that exists within the relationship between themselves and the subject. No matter the degree of previous societal indoctrination or desired authenticity in the meaning of certain erroneously programmed behavioral actions and responses, over-nurturing and over-dominating must be objectively identified and avoided to promote resolution via removal of all delusional excuses.
If you are over-nurturing or over-dominating anyone or anything, anywhere in the world, you are poisoning existence by promoting the possession of fear in all. That may sound harsh and extreme, but nonetheless, it remains true.