Love vs Sex 190

The Nice, the Bad, and the Almost Unbelievable

The most basic male appears to be the male who bloviates excessively in word and in projected persona about his sexual appetite, exploits and conquests, while in truth, remaining essentially asexual. This type of male is typically unaware in a general sense, emotionally unavailable in most higher degrees and prone towards preferring activity centered more around friends, sports, video games, work, or women other than the woman he has a public or socially acknowledged relationship with. His association with his “relationship” woman tends to revolve around either a public relations or advertising campaign about his own image, a motherly dynamic where he may perpetually act the wayward and self-centered child as the woman assumes all of the burdens of responsibility in the relationship or him becoming a super-brandisher trying to simply outdo and taunt every other guy with a more sexy or classy or total package “trophy” than they might have themselves. Some of the males in this category are certainly more benign and naive in their behavior, while others are definitely more malicious and conniving. Regardless of which of these natures rule in this type of male, the general  libido of both is often minimal or lacking. Most often, their sexual skill is poor and only encompassing the minimal interaction and exchange necessary for their sole enjoyment and sole climax. Nonetheless, the more conniving males in this group may still “notch their belts” excessively and compulsively, frequent gentlemen clubs, and lewdly flirt with any member of the opposite sex to maintain a false persona consistent with the normally assumed male bravado. A male of this greater group is most often referred to as a “nice guy” or a “respectable guy” even if they stray a little in the badboy areas of “normal men.” They are considered a safe bet by most women and unlikely to ever “leave for good.”

The second type of male may also display many of the negative or selfish behaviors described above. However, they possess a character trait of undeniable power and difference that distinctly separates them from this first group; sexual awareness and prowess. This type of male fundamentally retains an egocentric orientation but they have evolved or adopted the advanced technique of sexual manipulation and control that gives them perpetual dominion over the first type of male in relation to most sexual women. This second type appears addicted to corrupting or tricking or seducing women to act against their supposed better-natures or stated religious virtues or the accepted social norms of their given situation. It becomes an act to dehumanize and degrade women via their normal visceral instincts, desires, and responses regarding the flesh, by bastardizing the physical pleasure associated with the act of sex. These men prefer to reduce women to moaning beasts who forfeit all rational thought and any inertia that they may gather towards a desire of independence from their satiation-of-the-flesh-prison. As some mark or form of falsely assumed dominance over other men and all women, this type of male must obliterate any hope or consideration of the possible existence of a third type of male who possesses their same sexual prowess and yet chooses to yield elevation over degradation, by coupling it with spiritual grace in the pursuit of balanced and synergistically nurturing union(s). This second type of male is commonly referred to as the “bad boy” or the “fun guy.” He is the one many women would prefer to fuck and party with, but also the one they would never trust or earnestly engage as a partner in an attempt at a long standing relationship.

The third type of male prefers to elevate women and does so as both a devout friend and a lover. These men prefer to share their existence with a woman who is not moaning or groveling like a deplorable captive beast, but with a woman that shines and glistens in the supreme supernova potential of all of her infinite glory; the perpetual tremoring blissful rebirth of a phoenix ignited by the transcending radiance of undeniable love. This male seeks union instead of diabolical dominion. This male seeks love instead of some type of affirmation of superiority over his partner to satiate his own insecurity. This male desires to catalyze his energy and life force with a woman instead of hoarding his own and draining her of every drop that she possesses herself. This type of male will do everything that he may to make a woman tremble in a whirlwind of ecstasy as he lifts her up into the heavens. He does not drop her out of fun or boredom or weakness into the smoldering tortuous pits of an inescapable hell. He will always have her back. He will never let her down. In him, her coupling will find its true purpose. It will find true union. Many women may not believe that such a man even exists, but be assured that he does. Women will find such a man if they choose not to settle for less.

Cribb          2016

 

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