A Fundamental Indicator
If you really love someone, you will lift them up instead of tearing them down or trying to fix them.
If you really love someone, you will fix yourself…yourself….to be as pure and complete and aware as possible in your love that you offer to them.
This concept is of the utmost importance, but it is most often misinterpreted and misunderstood in application.
The fore mentioned concept includes an absence of the false gift of enabling them in their weakness and madness through your over-tolerance of any destabilizing behavior they may exhibit.
And thus, the delicate and imperative task of your appropriate nurturing and responsive behavior, remaining non-destabilizing at all times even in corrective balance, becomes a fundamental indicator of the effort you are applying in your love of another.
This effort is the behavioral conformation or denial of your professed love of another…and the rest is simply irrelevant.