Understanding the Efforts of Covert Destabilization in Two Seemingly Unrelated Forms – Versus Women and the Wild
She said “I don’t understand why anyone would go to that much effort to litter in such a beautiful place. I mean it takes a lot of energy to actually do such a thing. To carry trash that far out into the wilderness…and then dump it in a pristine paradise….and then not have any remorse or guilt or consideration for what they have done…to walk away, and leave their garbage in such a special place, makes no sense to me. I really don’t understand why they would do such a thing.”
And I said “Why would a man find or discover a woman who is such a gorgeous sexy creature…..vibrant with emotion and drive and motherly nurturing…and astounding beauty…and love…..and a zest for life and for a healthy balanced relationship, and then…then, deconstruct her…rip her apart…tear her down….try to remake her? Why would he lie to such a woman…why do you think he would deceive her or cheat on her? Why would he destabilize her…..weaken her? Think about it…I’m serious…it takes a lot of effort…a lot, and a lot of energy…to be given something so graceful, so beautiful….to have it in your orbit and then take its natural order…yeah, I know I am a damn super nerd…but I’m serious, I said it, and meant it….to take its natural order of such inherent beauty and existence and then, poison it….and manipulate it…..and attack it….to turn it upside down and ugly and away from its own peace and bliss and stability.
It’s the same damn thing in many ways. A man who does this to a woman is insecure and fearful….maybe even terrified. He doesn’t have any self-worth and the truth is that he feels unworthy or not good enough on his own merits and character and all that type of shit to keep such a angelic sexy beast of a woman in an ongoing relationship with himself. His insecurity destabilizes him and thus he must…he must destabilize and weaken the woman to keep her off kilter, unaware of her own beauty and strength, and also unaware of all options outside of himself. He will isolate her…mark her in any way he can as a possession…and progressively try and control her with fear and over-dominance instead of synergistically balancing himself with her via respect.
In the woods, many of the hikers and campers have been talked into the experience by others…in other words they did not really come to the place for the right reasons…they were guilted into it by their own ego or the words of another person or forced into it by the mandates of a parent or an adult group leader, like a scoutmaster. That means they will resent the hell out of whatever persons are associated with this experience and it means they will also resent the hell out of the place itself…even if it is a true paradise….you know kinda like resenting the strength and independence of a gorgeous sexy beast of a woman….but their resentment will not be overt or open or direct…because bada-boom bada-bang, you guessed it….they are too insecure to admit their fear and true feelings to others, because that could make them look or appear weak. These people approach the woods…the hiking…and the camping, just like our weaker guy approaches a stronger woman…passive-aggressively and indirectly. If they had the self-confidence and self-worth to admit they didn’t want to be in the woods, they would not have gone into the woods in the first place and thus would have no resentment, and further thus, no reason to passive-aggressively display their angst and try to assert some type of symbolic control or dominance over the environment of the woods. In the same respect, if a weaker or insecure man simply admitted his insecurity and thoughts to our stronger woman, then again, the cycle of destabilization may not ever even occur with all of its deceptive games and practices…because such truth and honesty could potentially remove the resentment and establish a true bond of respect, reversing the cycle to a positive state.
So, our resentful, insecure hiker/camper, bluffing his interest and courage in the temple of the wilderness, passive-aggressively counters his true fear, anxiety, and disdain for those who brought him here, those who simply just love the wild and find supreme peace here, where he cannot, and the very creatures and life abounding in their paradise which also happens to be his hell, by dumping litter, his mark of dominance and disrespect, all over “their” paradise, in hopes they will begin to hate it as much as he hates it. The similar act of cutting down live wood serves the same purpose usually…by chopping, cutting, or sawing down life, a person is often trying to make themselves feel empowered or in control…essentially over-dominate. He attempts to secretly or at least cleverly, but not openly destabilize the wild and the other people and creatures trying to appreciate the wild through his actions, just like our other man does to our pretty lady.
Why? Insecurity and fear will always attack natural order and stability in any form (a stable person or a stable paradise) because it gives itself an excuse to satiatingly sink within its own chaotic madness where it has a chance to dominate and control all. Insecurity and fear cannot…cannot complete with, dominate, or control anything that remains in a stable state. Respect…true respect of all and everything is the telltale sign and indicator of stability and no one should settle for anything less than such. That is where paradise awaits…whether it be in the arms of a gorgeous sexy beast or out in the middle of the wild.