The Hard O vs the Soft O – Part 2

The Honest Hard O – Staying Horizontal

There is an “in-between” state of sex that does not lead to the upward transcendence of the soft O nor to the downward transcendence of the parasitic hard O. This in-between state is characterized by neutral, respectful, and honest sexual intent without the incorporation of a unifying spiritual element. In other words, neither participant lies, deceives, manipulates, demeans, or harms the other participant or themselves, but nonetheless, the energy exchange lacks unifying and synergistic bonding capabilities. Thus, fucking equals fucking without any negativity or delinquency.

This type of sex induces horizontal transcendence. Both entities get to escape their isolated existence and bond with “something more” as a result of their fucking, but that bonding to “something more” is still limited to animalistic awareness. The difference between downward and horizontal transcendence is that the downward T is governed by unstable (neurotic) animal awareness and the horizontal T is governed by a balanced or stable animal awareness. The energy flow resulting from this type of “horizontal sex” remains neutral and neither entity is depleted or deconstructed in any way.

It should be obvious why this type of exchange is so much better than the downward parasitic hard O. It should also be noted that realistically this level of sex is probably the highest state of sexual satisfaction that the majority of people will ever allow themselves to experience. It doesn’t pull “you” together spiritually, but neither does it push “you” apart.

I am not offended or harmed or troubled in any way by sex of this nature. I honestly consider it healthy and natural and I find it a shame that most of humanity cannot overcome their mental baggage to arrive at a complete understanding, and thus personal benefit, of this type of dynamic. Instead, most take the fore mentioned low road of the parasitic hard O because they really can’t deal with the simple reality of truth and honesty.   

Non-sexual types of horizontal T include intense physical exercise, vocational obsession, and the vigorous pursuit of any non-directly-unifying, uplifting hobby or expression of art and music. I would further include obsession with living vicariously through interaction with pets and children under this category as long as the transcending entity remains neutral in the development of the pets and the children. Should that entity become a destabilizing or parasitic force to a child or pet in any form, they immediately leave horizontal T and dive into downward T.                    

To be continued…

Cribb 2014

Love vs Sex 42

A Beautiful Woman

A beautiful woman is a woman who is an intimate friend with her own true essence…..a woman who does not flee from her own spirit, attempt to brainwash or confound her own mind, or make effort to be, or even appear to be, that which she is not. A beautiful woman lives…..she does not only pretend to live. A beautiful woman is the only type of woman capable of the true emotion and grace of love…she does not engage in the much more common, mundane facade of the simple illusion of love. Oh….how I truly respect and adore such amazing beauty….how I crave…crave and thirst for such rare and exquisite presence in my life.

Cribb      2014

Love vs Sex 41

Love de-objectifies the percieved thing or person. At the same time it de-subjectifies the perciever, who no longer views the outside world with desire or aversion, no longer judges automatically and irrevocably, is no longer an emotionally charged ego, but finds himself an element in the given reality, which is not an affair of objects and subjects, but a cosmic unity of love.

Lust is sexual relations with an object for the benefit of a subject—who may also enjoy as a kind of bonus, the manifestations of subjective enjoyment proceeding from the object. Love de-objectifies and de-subjectifies, substitues the primordial fact of unity and the awareness of mutual immanence for a frenzy heightened to despair by the impossibility of that total possession of the object, at which it mistakenly aims.         

This Timeless Moment – quoting a letter written by A. Huxley

Laura Huxley     1968   

Love vs Sex 40

I know this song is “poppy” and light, but it is still a reflection of the ideal of love. The first person that I ever truly fell in love with introduced me to this song and I still remember singing it together with her in some silly passionate short-lived blissful state. And I meant every damn word of it.


I am thinking it’s a sign
That the freckles in our eyes
Are mirror images
And when we kiss they’re perfectly aligned

And I have to speculate
That God Himself did make
Us into corresponding shapes
Like puzzle pieces from the clay

And true it may seem like a stretch
But it’s thoughts like this that catch
My troubled head when you’re away
And when I am missing you to death

And when you are out there on the road
For several weeks of shows
And when you scan the radio
I hope this song will guide you home

They will see us waving from such great heights
“Come down now” they’ll say
But everything looks perfect from far away
“Come down now” but we’ll stay

I tried my best to leave
This all on your machine
But the persistent beat
It sounded thin upon the sending

And that frankly will not fly
You’ll hear the shrillest highs
And lowest lows with the windows down
And this is guiding you home

They will see us waving from such great heights
“Come down now” they’ll say
But everything looks perfect from far away
“Come down now” but we’ll stay

They will see us waving from such great heights
“Come down now” they’ll say
But everything looks perfect from far away
“Come down now” but we’ll stay

(They will see us waving from such great heights)
(Come down now)
They will see us waving from such great heights
(Come down now)


Such Great Heights

The Postal Service

Love vs Sex 39

She’ll lie and steal and cheat, 
And beg you from her knees
Make you think she means it this time
She’ll tear a hole in you, one you can’t repair 
But I still love her, I don’t even care 

When we were young, 
Oh oh, we did enough
When it got cold, 
Ooh ooh, we bundled up
I can’t be told, 
Ah ah it can’t be done

It’s better to feel pain, than nothing at all
The opposite of love’s indifference
So pay attention now, 
I’m standing on your porch screaming out
And I won’t leave until you come downstairs

So keep your head up, keep your love
Keep your head up, my love 
Keep your head up, my love
Keep your head up, keep your love

And I don’t blame ya dear 
For running like you did, all these years
I would do the same, your best believe
And the highway signs say we’re close, 
But I don’t read those things anymore
I never trusted my own eyes

When we were young 
Oh oh, we did enough
When it got cold, 
Ooh ooh we bundled up
I can’t be told, 
Ah ah, can’t be done

Keep your head up, keep your love
Keep your head up, my love 
Keep your head up, my love
Keep your head up, keep your love

Head up, love
Head up, love

Head up, love
Head up, love

Stubborn Love
The Lumineers

Another Example of the Truth Behind Corporate Invasion into Veterinary Medicine



Nice brochure, right? Happy, happy puppy…smiling because he is covered under a well marketed “wellness plan” that you must buy IF YOU LOVE HIM to cover him with the “best medicine and care” available. AND BESIDES JUST LIKE PET INSURANCE, WHAT A GREAT DEAL….WHAT GREAT SAVINGS!!!!! Unfortunately, none of that is even remotely true and this company with their insurance-like sales pitch and propaganda, stands for one thing and one thing only….decieving you with marketing techniques because THEY think you are stupid enough to buy into their scheme, and by doing so you will directly contribute to their bottom line profit while you suffer the consequences of their unbalanced and manipulative trick. This company contacted me so I would consider using their services to help my business combat current opposing veterinary market forces. The opposing forces, according to this company are “big box retailers, non-profit organizations, card table vaccine clinics, and online pharmacies.” That statement, at least, can be trusted and I have discussed those entities at length in previous writings. Of note….of specific note is the fact that they did not include VETERINARY INSURANCE COMPANIES in their list. Don’t take your eye off the ball….don’t blink. The brochure further states that the veterinary industry model “has to change”. The company then makes the following statement

“With TruePet Wellness Plans your practice is empowered to move beyond the standard model of revenue. Through membership dues, increased contact, and a tailored package of services your practice will be able to transform the way care is delivered to your client. Through the annual renewal process you can continue to engage your client and adjust services to meet the changing needs of a pet.”      

What this means in normal-speak is we can help you trick your customers into signing up for an automatic renewable plan, so we can endlessly bombard them with coupons, propaganda, and tricks to get them to visit you much more often than they currently are (and I would add, actually need to), and make them think that somehow they are saving money the whole damn time. This concept, again, is the current corporate game plan across the board in every field and it is in direct violation with balanced small business. It is not good for you the customer, the pet, or even for me, the veterinarian, in the long run. In the short-term it could significantly benefit my profit margin and in the long-term it would probably benefit me mildly to moderately, but none of that matters, because it destroys the entire system, it removes balance and creates a “centralized” healthcare field that functions primarily through deception as it partners with corporate business forces who have no…none…nada concern…for ethical, moral, balanced medical care. The corporate business pseudo-medical forces only care about bottom line profit…..only. It is amazing to me how the masses have come to contort their minds in such a state that they “believe” corporate business companies/people will somehow save them money in any medical field, while the MD or the DVM becomes the greediest, most despicable, materialistic parasite in existence. It is a brilliant play by the business interests because the whole damn time they hide their involvement and obvious undeniable motive from your eyes. 

This is another picture from the same brochure. Look at it. Read it. Please read their words, not my interpretation of such. Read what they say you will do….how much money you will save with me by partnering with this corporation (and it is the same, the same, with a pet insurance company).


Just like with the pet insurance plans that I have previously exposed are supposed to save you money, the “face” of this program or offer suggests exactly the same. The truth ,however, is clearly illustrated in their words, their sales pitch to me that they hide so carefully from you. So, this awesome wellness plan tricks you into visiting the veterinarian 4 times more often than an average client and tricks you into spending 3-7 times more than the national average on your pet. On top of that, you pay a monthly membership fee.     

These tricks and manuevers were intentionally implemented and they succeeded in the field of human medicine with their simple goal to capture revenue from that field at any cost and that is why human medicine has finally imploded. Currently, there is no government interference or involvement or control in veterinary medicine…none. The enemy clearly poised against and confronting veterinary medicine at present is an ominous, centralized, well-capitalized, hypnotic, deceptive, pseudo-medical corporate predator and it is coming for you and me, and if we give it a chance, it will eat us both.

Jeff Cribb DVM     2014